السبت، 8 ديسمبر 2012

Psychological and social counselling

Thinking about divorce
* I am a woman, 34 years old, has been married for ten years, and my life was initially a good marital excellent and my relationship with my husband, and now I have two children. Five years ago after procreative for the second child, where he became my husband isolated gradually he was inside the house, where it enters the office and stay long hours may exceed six hours, closed the door on himself and the talks with people I do not know, so he no longer does any burdens requirements home, I became responsible for everything, which is neglected us not accept to sit down with their children and give them any portion of his time and prevent them from entering the office, not take them to any place outside the home, and lost even his visits family; not visiting family or relatives, but became isolated, and also become irritable, and it came to that separate inside the house, it is not among us any real marital relationship. Finally I was very disappointed and I think actually in divorce because I feel that my life became him have no meaning, and whenever discuss it does not respond to, and became a suspect in his relations with other women through talks and Facebook, Vslukiath reveal about it. I do not know what the solution in my life because I become Mtchoch and looking for a solution, but I found nothing but divorce as a solution to the problems which have been exacerbated and reached this stage, I hope to hear from you advise me about my problem and resolutions on ending marital life and Thank you.
P.

-Madam, really suffer from a real problem, and suffered many of the ladies, but I do agree with you in that I thought. Divorce is not a solution to this problem, and if so many women leaving their husbands and sought a divorce and divorce. As you said, this is not your problem you only but many women suffer from this problem and menztb from access to relationships outside of marriage, even though these relations only during online chats or Facebook, and a few times it may evolve into a real relationship threatens the life of the home and family life for men. I see that you try time and other times, you dialogue with him as well as seriously, and if you pray to the result you may enter one of his family who took him to intervene between you and tries to repair what can be repaired, that divorce will have negative effects, especially small children still need their father. Sometimes than some men from their slumber if driver crashed into them in fact patients live, dangerous to the future of family life. I don't think that he would risk destroying his family life and the lives of his children if aware that isolation with your computer and talks with people who think that these are some women's relations and that his jealousy towards you and influenced your relationship of marriage. I think that's better than rushing to divorce and may you repent in the future.

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